Adding one simple word can make you more persuasive.
In a famous 1978 Harvard University study, a researcher would attempt to cut in line to copy some pages at the library.
In some cases they said: “Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine?”
In others, they asked the same thing except for adding a simple word.
And this simple word made it 50% more likely they would be allowed to cut the line.
Here’s what they said.
“Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine, because I have to make copies?”
Yes, the simple word was “because”.
When we hear “because” it helps us justify a behaviour - in this case letting someone cut in.
So next time you have to ask a favour, be sure to add “because”, because it will make you more persuasive.
Ref: Langer, E., Blank, A., & Chanowitz, B. (1978). The mindlessness of Ostensibly Thoughtful Action: The Role of “Placebic” Information in Interpersonal Interaction. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 36(6), 635-642.
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